{"id":625,"date":"2020-07-30T09:06:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-30T06:06:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.okatai.com\/palmreading\/?p=625"},"modified":"2020-08-05T07:23:04","modified_gmt":"2020-08-05T04:23:04","slug":"how-to-not-waste-time-on-a-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.okatai.com\/palmreading\/2020\/07\/30\/how-to-not-waste-time-on-a-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Okatai Dating Tip \u2013 Find the good match before your first date"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Wasted time on a first date again? Not finding the good match before your first date?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I know one client who is single. She searches for a boyfriend. She met some men. Then it turned out she was not satisfied.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">She says<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>oh I wasted my time again.<\/strong><\/span>&#8220;<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Dating and getting to know the person are the best way to check good match. Without this, you don&#8217;t know a person.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">But let&#8217;s say you don&#8217;t have too much time for many dates.\u00a0<strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Is there any way to avoid non-ideal match beforehand?<\/span><\/strong><\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Me as a palm reader, if I really need to know the person beforehand, I would surely take a look at his\/her hand. Of course, it&#8217;s my occupation. Then if hands are not available, I would check his\/her birthday. For me this is it. (But actually in my case I don&#8217;t do this for dating. I will write the reason another time).<\/span> \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Non spiritual way of knowing non-ideal match beforehand<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">But let&#8217;s talk about non spiritual way today.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">There is a <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>super simple check<\/strong><\/span> you can do (both men and women).<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">You just &#8220;briefly&#8221; take a look at his\/her posts on facebook. <\/span><\/strong>Unless the person is an inactive user who does not post at all, you can see some posts.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Here <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>&#8220;briefly&#8221; is the key<\/strong><\/span>. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>You do this only to get your first impression and nothing more.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span> \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">What is the first impression from his\/her SNS?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You see some posts.\u00a0You might feel cool, good, bad.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You might think the person is nice. You might think the person is little too much.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Or you might think &#8212; nothing. Completely neutral.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Here, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>trust your first impression<\/strong><\/span>.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Our instinct and first impression have power<\/strong><\/span>. \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>If you felt that the person was not cool and somehow your heart rejected the person, there must be a reason. I<\/strong><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>n this case, you might feel the same way on your first date<\/strong><\/span>. <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">This means you could avoid non ideal match beforehand.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>You don&#8217;t want to judge the person so fast? Of course, if you can go on a date and get to know the person well, this is the best<\/strong><\/span>. I always recommend you do so.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>But some people just don&#8217;t want to waste too much time for non necessary dates<\/strong><\/span>. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Then you can use the method above.<\/strong> <\/span>If you felt not cool, then don&#8217;t go.<\/span> \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">What if you feel nothing?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">What if you felt nothing &#8211; neutral? This actually happens often. You took a look at the person&#8217;s posts. Then you don&#8217;t know what to think.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Then <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>this is a go for it sign<\/strong><\/span>. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Because you don&#8217;t know. Go and see. I saw enough successful couples from &#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221; impression as well.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Again, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>only &#8220;briefly&#8221; check is enough. Maybe few minutes and nothing more.<\/strong><\/span> You just ask your instinct.<\/span> \u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">If you are single, I hope you will have good dates in the future! Good luck!<\/span><\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 Wasted time on a first date again? Not finding the good match before your first date? 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