Today I will mention the importance of appreciation. This is a very simple point, but the basic point is often forgotten. So take this opportunity to look back on yourself.
Do you say anything after dinner?
He asked you out for dinner. He was nice.
Now it is time to pay the bill. Let’s say he is the one who pays the bill fully.
Now here comes the difference. There are some women who say “Thank you” with smile, when he pays.
There are also other women who do not say anything. And interestingly, even nice women often do it. They actually appreciate it but they do not say it.
They do not have specific reasons for this. Maybe they just thought he asked you out for dinner so it was normal for him to pay.
Thank you is more powerul than you think
Whatever the reason it is, saying “Thank you” here is more powerful than you think.
Why is it important? Because men, just like women, want to feel appreciated. So men feel nice by hearing this.
Saying thank you also makes you stand out.
Imagine he normally meets women who do not say “Thank you”. But this time, you say “Thank you”.
Or if he normally meets women who say “Thank you”. But this time, you do not say anything.
You see the difference?
Next time instead of having silent moment, make sure to say “thank you” after dinner.